Archive for May, 2008

THE SECRET

Friday, May 30th, 2008

THE SECRET to healing & happiness (not to mention getting prayers answered) is getting in touch with God (the God of Love) and opening yourself to discovering what he wants you to learn and what changes he wants you to make in yourself & your attitudes.

For example, in the years depicted in _Petitioning God_, I had to learn to stop expecting more from Belinda than she was prepared to give. Now, I need to become more willing to promote my book (instead of just sitting here writing it all the time).

It’s our human nature to resist this move of focusing on the God within us & doing what he lovingly urges us to do, but it’s the only way to be happy.

For example, I resisted my growth with regard to Belinda, repeatedly trying to pretend our relationship was more than it was, even after she met her honey Nicole, when at first I assumed they had merely met by chance when actually Belinda had aggressively tried to meet someone online, & finally succeeded. Currently, I struggle every day with the part of me that still wants nothing to do with promotion or even finding a publisher because it thinks it doesn’t want the changes that will take place when all that stuff happens. But I will keep working on it and, with God’s help, will triumph over it in yet another step of spiritual growth, which is, after all, the whole purpose of this life. Because I know that continuing to progress on the journey is the only way to true peace & joy!

Good luck in your journey, & feel free to write me anytime with problems or questions!

God’s love,

Sara

The vale of soul-making

Tuesday, May 20th, 2008

The great psychologist Carl Jung spoke of “the work of the second half of life,” which is the task of spiritual & psychic transformation that is necessary for happiness after humans reach a certain age.

This fact, which it seems to be our human nature to avoid for as long as we can, strikes me as very good evidence that the whole purpose of life is for us to grow spiritually. The poetic genuis Keats put it concisely: the world, he said, is “the vale of soul-making.”

The promise of paradise

Tuesday, May 20th, 2008

The promise of heaven is often best understood by those whose lives consist of chronic pain or poverty, because their situations lead them to put their hopes in eternity instead of continually trying to make this life meaningful & satisfying. They don’t try to do that in the first place, & therefore don’t struggle with the disappointment that life doesn’t meet their expectations the way “normal” people tend to do. Much of the depression that is so rampant in our privileged society could be alleviated instantly if the sufferers could learn to focus on eternity instead of this temporary (& frequently frustrating) life.

Healing the sick

Tuesday, May 20th, 2008

I believe, as Scott Peck did, that most illnesses & other physical conditions are psychosomatic & deeply spiritual. To truly get well, the person must undergo a spiritual (or psychic) transformation, in which he or she accepts, on the deepest level possible, forgiveness & salvation & the love of the God of Love. Understanding “salvation” as healing, as salve for our wounds, applies here.

The healing/salvation doesn’t have to mean the person is completely cured of all illness or deformity. In our mission as Jesus’s followers, many times all we can do is demonstrate God’s love & acceptance by loving & accepting & helping the afflicted ourselves; if they feel loved & accepted even momentarily, they will in that small way have had a taste of salvation.

So it’s up to us as Christians to never tire, never cease carrying out our mission of active & radical love & healing.

Another kind of debunking

Tuesday, May 6th, 2008

I don’t usually correspond directly with fundamentalists, mainly because I don’t know many of them, but I do have this friend, a pastor in the “holiness movement,” who recently observed that that movement, whose purpose is to help people increase in “holiness” by perfecting their natures, seems to be missing something, because, as he put it, “the rubber doesn’t meet the road” as far as making a real difference in the lives of the students in the “holiness colleges” despite the fact that they surround themselves all day long with all the right holiness materials & practices. I couldn’t resist this opportunity to explain what I had always thought about such insulation of oneself from life, plus the guy had asked, after all. Here’s basically what I told him:

>>>”Although I had never heard of the modern holiness movement, I understand that it’s an attempt to put Wesley’s teachings about salvation & sanctification into practice, an attempt that I don’t agree with in the first place. I think the whole premise of the holiness movement is flawed in its self-absorbed concern about how holy or how sinful one is. Obsessing about the state of one’s soul seems to me an incredibly arrogant and faithless path to take, and a non-christ-like one at that. It seems clear to me that Jesus was all about LOVE, not sin! He was constantly helping the poor & marginalized, & bringing them the good news that God loves them. Our commission as his followers is to accept the good news and set about spreading it to the world not by going around telling people how sinful they are but by loving them radically with no partiality, as Jesus did. If they then want to become followers themselves, our job is to help them in any way we can, but never to judge that they or others aren’t really saved, much less to worry that we ourselves aren’t holy enough! Our assignment as Christians is to feed the hungry & heal the sick, not to waste our time & energy worrying about holiness.

“In my own work on my book, I’m interested in helping people work on their private relationships to God, as well as their personal transformation into their better selves, but not in the sense of making sure they’re forgiven by God. It seems clear to me that Jesus’s message was that we ARE forgiven and our task is to forgive others, not to worry about whether we’re really forgiven or really saved. We are, and so is everyone else who chooses to accept that fact of God’s love, so the next thing to do is set out spreading that LOVE to others, not going around telling them they’re not really saved or that their beliefs are erroneous. Not only is that approach off-putting & hurtful to those who hear it, but also Christians who get caught up in it are wasting valuable resources as well as sabotaging their own joy! In my view, “the kingdom of heaven is at hand” means it’s time for us, empowered by JC’s message of love, to spread the kingdom by spreading love & healing the way he did! Alleviating poverty & hunger & disease are huge tasks that should keep us occupied full-time!

“In my work, I feel called to help people develop their inner spiritual lives & prayer relationships to God for the purpose of furthering their spiritual growth & the transformation of their flaws, which in turn enables them to serve others, which leads them to deep joy. While this process could be described as “perfecting our natures,” it cannot occur in a vacuum. Moreover, I have no interest whatsoever in telling anyone that they aren’t holy enough or that they’re not saved. Surely this is what Jesus meant when he said we were not to judge. And surely salvation is available to all who accept it, whenever they do decide to accept it. They’re more likely to if they see Christians being joyful & loving, which is what _I_ call holy, rather than morose, fearful, & judgmental of others or themselves.

“I think the disconnect you mention in the holiness colleges, where you say the rubber doesn’t hit the ground as far as making a difference in the students’ lives, stems from the simple fact that trying to be “holy” all the time is a way of escaping from life rather than confronting it. I think the mistake of the colleges as well as the whole holiness movement is that this focus on how “holy” & “sinless” one is itself a self-absorbed, fruitless activity that keeps the person from serving the needs of the world, loving others constantly as Jesus taught & modeled. Loving God is fine but it is not complete without loving our neighbors, radically & actively & continually.

“SO, there you have my opinion of the holiness movement, probably more than you bargained for. . . . I think you are wise to recognize the disconnect in the movement, & would be glad to try to offer input that could help them perhaps retool their approach, but as I’ve stated above, I think it is fundamentally flawed. I pray that they (& you) will see the light and learn the joy of using their energy to help heal the world!

Christ’s peace,

Sara”